It’s usually a series of events or behaviors that lead up to you losing your cool, especially when you have more than one child and one of them is misbehaving. I know you don’t want to lose your patience and you probably regret it later. It never feels good to yell and you wonder how it even got to that point in the first place. The good news is I’ve got a simple behavioral strategy you can implement anytime and anywhere that doesn’t involve any yelling— promise.